hope456 - he filed, what now?

[lost18]

I have only read bits and pieces of your story and can relate to how you are feeling. I said something similar about feeling weak and was asked this question: If your best friend was the one telling this story would you think she was weak?? I'm sure you wouldn't! Quit beating yourself up over how you feel and where you think you "should" be emotionally! You are you, stop comparing yourself to anyone else, you are a work in progress like we all are, one day at time.

You might not want to reconcile if the D becomes final, but that is for you to decide if that happens. You can't worry about that now. Focus on you and your D7...that is what is important right now.

I should really take my own advice!