According to you, the sexual dissatisfaction caused you to have a third party involved.......before the M. What did you honestly expect to happen after M? What were your plans in dealing with it?

A long MR has enough challenges without entering into one knowing full well you are not sexually satisfied with your financee. It's not fair to either of you. And if you told her the things you told us about her.....it could crush her as a woman. I mean, how would you feel if she had an A with some OM based on his size? People can learn skills but they can't do a lot about how their body is designed.

I'm saying you need to get this stuff worked out before you get into any committed R. If you went to a sex addicts meeting, you must feel that something is not as it should be.

Last edited by sandi2; 06/03/14 02:18 PM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!