Tried to edit but was too late....I wanted to add about the part where you tell the kids what ISN'T going to change. That's part of my problem. My D is going to be up rooted from her home at least half the time, will be going to public school for first time ever (the biggest class she ever had was 11 kids!), won't know anyone at her new school and is going into HS, one of the already hardest adjustments to make. Add to that losing the security of an intact family, any other men my W may want to bring into the picture, that my W already is trying to push her into "liking" her grandfather and spending time with him (a man that is mean to her (her words) and all the other changes (will she have her pets? Where and what kind of place will she live?,etc.) and it is going to change her in so many ways. She won't have her sister around either. This worries me!
