Good idea AJM. The problem is my W refuses to talk to her. She is fully into finding a place and looking at schools in another county but still won't say a thing to our D. This is why I think I should talk to her. If she finds out I knew but didn't tell her, what will she think of me then? To let her think she still has a chance at going to the school she wants. She's angry now, my D. I don't want her to be even more angry. I really don't plan on "bad mouthing" her mom, I just want to be as honest as I can. I do now realize I need to not be so angry when I decide to think of what to say and when I say it. I will have more info after tomorrow's lawyer trip so I may have a better idea of what will happen going down the road. I will be careful. I will do the best thing I can. I never thought I would ever be here. Ever need to think of the right thing to say when I know my D's life is going to change for the worse and there is nothing I can do. I never thought I'd need to protect them from their own mother. It just [censored] and hurts!
