This is the day....Be glad!

[willbwell]

Thanks Betsey, yes, my head is swimming. It is all so complicated.I am sorry for being so dense here, but why can't it be written that H pays D support for life? I mean I am aware that once she qualifies for SSI, she should have no "income" or assets.
We do have a special needs trust.
I have called around and gotten an idea of future costs for day programs.I am aware of private group homes.

D is going to a camp this summer that is part of a living community.H and I had discussed this years ago about D going when she turned 16 so we could check it out for future.Needless to say it is very, very expensive.

i am getting somewhat the panic feeling. I finish my classes in september and will need to find a job. This is after 20+ years of being a SAHM. A
lot of changes coming our way....I know I am capable. I don't want to borrow trouble. Feeling I will have to squash some resentment on my part...