Riley, I would defer to the vets, the more experienced voices here.

IMO, only you can determine what you really want. This will determine your course.

If you are not sure what to do, I would leave the D discussion and process alone, at least for now.

If there are legal &/or financial concerns, getting proper legal advice would be prudent.

Again I would defer to the wisdom of the vets. This is just my perspective.

M:36 W:34
T:9,M:4
Me,WAH:7/2011
My apology:12/2012
Her,WAW:01/2013
ILYBINILWY:4/2013
W's EA:5/2013
Sep:9/2013
2nd EA signs:03/2014