Tell your spouse, that you are planning on talking with your Daughters at __ time, on ___ date. You feel as though it is something that you should do together.
And if she misses that, then it is on her....
I cannot stress how important it is that YOU make the effort to have W there at the talk.
A lot is riding on this talk for your daughters dude... A LOT.
Slow down and think of how a man with class, dignity and honor would handle this...
And, if you start in on the blaming W, how are you going to feel and handle it when they DEFEND her? Hm? And they likely will, she IS there Mom after all!!!....And how are you going to look in THEIR eyes? How would you feel about that?
Caution here dude...this is showtime and there are NO do-overs...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
