I'm with you Thornton on the feeling of "limbo" but I hate to say it...whenever I entertain the thought of her "not really wanting this" I soon realize that it's simply I'm in denial. If she didn't really want this, it wouldn't have gotten this far. That's where I'm at. I'd love to think she's just in a WAW "fog" and her head will clear and she'll come running back. However I do not foresee this happening in reality sadly. I think it's a case of mine (and yours) emotions and longing for them giving us wishful thinking.
Tough words I know, and I may be wrong, but I don't think so...and it stinks.


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14