Controversial Option. Apologising for causing an a

[RedHawk98]

It's more of a short note on the blank side of a card. Maybe in some flowers I'll have sent to her work.

I am ONLY taking responsibility for my actions in making her feel the way she did, that allowed this EA to happen.
This EA got out of hand fast, and she left me to pursue this.

I'm about 90% sure it's over now. I know she feels like she has made a mistake that I will hold against her forever.

I haven't behaved in the strongest manner, appearing a bit needy.
Those days are done. I would be very happy to save our marriage at the 11th hour. But if not, I'm not as angry and hurt as I was.