It's more to do with letting her know that I can finally see what she was going through in hindsight, now that the anger and hurt have subsided in me.
I was under stress and grieving at the time this happened, then as my wife left she saw nothing but hurt and anger from me.
I haven't had a clear head and heart in a while to see that.

She did try to express her feelings from that time recently, but in my brooding state I saw it as little more than justification for her actions.

I just want peace for both of us. Regardless of whether reconciliation is in our future.


Suspected EA: Feb 2013
Bomb drop: Mid March 2013
Separation: Mid April 2013
(I fought for marriage)
Filed for Divorce: April 2014
Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014