Shoot! I think I backslid myself then. When I replied to one of my WAW's emails in reference to her telling me how her anxiety is horrible, how she'd been crying, trying to figure out how to be and who she is...I replied with "I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now, I am as well as you can imagine, it's just something we have to get through together, our last challenge together to overcome."

Now after reading about validation, I am thinking I should've just said..."I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now, it's a challenge." Did I mess up big time here with what I wrote?

Last edited by ItHurts; 06/02/14 07:07 PM.
ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14