So... W finally came out of the bedroom this afternoon.

She told me she was pretty hurt by the way I expressed myself last. To her credit, she said that although she was hurt, she didn't think that meant she didn't do anything wrong and that she should have texted me. I told her I understood why she was hurt and that I was sorry for doing so, and that I obviously still had some work to do regarding how I express myself when I feel hurt or angry.

And that was that.

I'm not getting a good vibe from this but I am keeping up the PMA.


H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14