If it is any consolation, the kids never act out for h. The older 2 have told me they are afraid of him so they say they don't want to get yelled at or punished.
I think you are doing a great job with s. That must be a challening situation. However, you are committed and sound like a great mom. You are right-it will get better:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer