It's your emotional outburst in trying to relieve your anger that's the concern. Did that help your case at all?
I believe that people in a committed, loving R will want to honor boundaries and keep their loved one from worry. Your W is apparently not there. If that rule is a non-negotiable for you, then it is, and you are now in the position of standing by it.
Anger is OK, it's how we express it that is the important piece. Do you see that? How could you have handled it differently?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
