[Maritimer]

Thank you for showing interest in my thread owl777! Great reminder to not believe anything she says. It hurts and its not true.

I did ask that we should go to family counseling and she is refusing. She wants me to sign off for her to have full custody of the children for the next 10 years. I want shared custody but she is not willing to compromise or even talk about it. I do not want to go the legal route but seems to be my only option to get to see my kids more. We need to find healthy ways to communicate effectively. She still has anger in her tone when talking to me.

Yes, I am trying to convince her that I am a good parent because she dont want me to have the kids more because im "unfit". Im being as patient as I can but I miss my children dearly. They grow up so quick..

I have many GAL activities and am confident in who I've become. All I want is to see my children more. DB'ing is hard when Lawyers get involved.