My in-laws reached out to me one time and that was it. It would have been better if they'd stayed quiet. My MIL told me "kids deserve to grow up in a happy home" -- in SUPPORT of H walking out. Our home was perfectly happy before he walked out, so far as my kids were concerned. And he hadn't actually spoken to her about anything, either, nor has he told his family the truth about what he's been doing.
Probably best to try not to mind-read your MIL. Especially if you & your H eventually reconcile.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
