Thanks AJ. I'm so trying to do the "right" thing. To take the high road but I keep getting kicked in the....well you get it! I won't hurt her on purpose no matter how she hurts me. Well, of course...right? Do right by your kids and sometimes, that has to be ENOUGH, okay?
I just want it to at least slow down for at least long enough to catch my breath. I just had a fun GAL night and the next day, bam! It hits the fan, again!
DETACH and "it" won't hit you or the fan so much.
We say it a lot for a reason...
This is the hardest part, seeing how she doesn't care about even food for the kids.
you don't know this^^ and it's NOT HELPING --- YOU to think it, or say it or show it, and your kids will pick up on it
She just yelled over a $5.00 charge on a bill and cost us $200 in over draft charges because she didn't bother to tell me that she stopped putting money in joint accounts. CALM yourself...she does NOT think this is true. She believes you should have checked. And so, there's no point is going on about it. COMMUNICATE financial matters so it won't happen again. That's all you can do, NOW...
Loopy, yes! I'm going to need to suck it up and get my stuff in order. I just need to center myself and find my strength!
Yes you do need to find your strength and rely on it. Your kids need you and they are watching you more than you know. SLOW down, do right byou your kids and btw, have YOU seen a L?
You need not "Do" something but get information, but DO GET IT. Seriously.
And we promise you, it does get better
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