I guess I don't know what I should do as he has stated that he needs the D to happen but he told me that he doesn't rule out a reconciliation for us even after the divorce is final and is being much warmer now. I need some advice please or hit with 2x4 of truth?
My H says this, too. He "needs" the D. He feels like he has to have it to move forward and get rid of the stress he's feeling, but he isn't "closing the door" on us. He thinks we could R later--in 2 or 5 or 10 years. I'm trying to accept that for right now, D is the reality that I'm facing and live my life on that basis. I just haven't quite figured out how to balance hope for the future with my H with that. My DB coach thinks that the fact that he says these things is a sign of his confusion.
