Well one thing is for sure, we can't work on the M if OM is still in the picture.
Agreed
As far as exposure goes I dont think that here on MWD's forum it is recommended although about a year ago I spoke to MWD on FB about her new book that she is writing about infidelity, so when it comes out we will have a definitive stance on what she thinks about it.
My suggestion is to work on YOU, and be the best that YOU can be.
