I am frustrated... in reading from another thread about a mlc husband who faced reality when his wife dropped the rope. I question does it really take for these guys to go THAT far, before they realize what is in front of their face? Does ANYONE ever appreciate it while they still have their "anchor"? GRRRRR.
I am so disappointed and insulted that he does not appreciate what is in his face... even though he admits all the love, sexual desire, good qualities that I am...
I really wish I had understood this sooner. It would have probably been more effective for R earlier, as now if I am "gone" he "may" be ok with it as he no longer requires the anchor (safety net) for him to be able to do what he wants with his life. He can move forward. I have gradually been letting the rope down, I see this now.... (SAD).
I am dropping the rope for ME...its healthier for me. At this point, even if he were to offer me a Keg dinner, I'd be inclined to decline. I am not falling for those old tricks anymore... Im tired of that!
Is temperature checking a sign of interest? Because, when my XH and I split up... he was done, never temp checked...he could care less if I was "there" or not. my XH was completely done right from the beginning!!! My Xbf, seems to want to ensure that I am "there". Its like he basically knows that he will eventually come back (plan b) if plan a shouldn't work out.
F-that!!!! I am not an option ~~~ I am a CHOICE!!
^^^^^ THIS MAKES ME SOOOO MADDDD!!!
Why do they bother to test, if they are not interested in investing? I would love to hear from husband who was in mlc and his wife presented reality... he got it!!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
