I did good until today. I'm having a very rough day. I guess I started analyzing what he said.

This I need to find a boyfriend thing has been going on for a while now. I try to ignore it but today it just got to me again.

Is this his way of trying to alleviate any guilt he has if he has been with someone or is it fear that I will find someone else?

If I was done with a relationship I can tell you I wouldn't care one way or another if the other person was dating. And I sure wouldn't be contacting them. But that's just me.

Has anyone else had to go through this from their spouse or does anyone have any idea why he keeps on about it?