If she asks for help, provide it, but don't hover/offer when she doesn't ask. If you do get sad about something take a time-out. I am working on packing today as well, actually, and I started to get upset when we went through the wedding mementos, so I said I was going to take a break and just went into the other room for a while until I could come back calmly. Like Thornton said, you want your last impression to be a good one (confident, supportive etc.)
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
