Stuff to do RIGHT NOW 1 Close any joint accounts 2 Start getting print outs of any text messages you two share 3 Get print outs of all bank statements
Daily Stuff 1. Read Sandi's 37 rules and apply them 2. Hit the gym, and if you can't do the 100 push a day plan.
Future Plans: 1. Determine how much spousal support is in your state 1A. Consider downgrading internet/phone plan/cutting her off any of the previously mentioned bills 2. Make a bills excel spreadsheet and determine what your limits are 3 DO NOT STOP SANDI's list until your W wants to work on this
Bro if she is worried about OM's GF or W, who cares? She will crash, most A don't last more than 6 months from what I heard, so let her throw herself in that fire.
And dude, your W will miss you, but you need to give her SPACE to give her the opportunity to miss you. Like any good workout plan, it will take time for your wife, or yourself, to notice. Keep up the good work, put some muscle on and keep on truckin. Be the man she married, look back and see if you can now "see" anything you've stopped doing. Remember, this 180 is for YOU, if she decides to join you thats her decision.
Good luck Amigo!
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
