What did you come up with?

I've noticed that women on the forum get a lot of advice to pick up the slack and protect themselves & their kids financially. Men on the forum seem either not to need or not to get similar advice. But the truth of the matter is that left behind means left to carry on basically all the responsibilities they've walked away from. If you ask once and she's not covering, then it's probably on you or has to be dropped. She's not reliable right now.

Is there one thing about this situation that is fair or reasonable? Nope. Sooner we get our heads around that the easier it is to detach.

Sorry, hope it worked out all right.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.