I'm Just About Ready For The Fork

[tadpole1025]

Thanks for the input everyone. I managed to get 2 hours of sleep this morning. Yay me.

You are all right and I know it. I just thought that we were done with all of the anger and spew because to be honest, it had cooled down quite a bit in recent months.

I have a question: How do you wish your son would have responded?

I wish he would have just let it go and be the bigger person. I even told him that, but he was just so mad that I guess he had to get it out. I've actually told all of them that on previous occassions.

By the way, as of 3 hours ago, she was still spewing at him and complaining that she doesn't ever get any birthday or Christmas gifts from him. Unbelievable. I did talk him into just ignoring her and letting it go. Things are now quiet.

Yes AJ, I guess we are pretty much blood brothers by now. I actually chuckled when I read that.

Do you see it's not you even more clearly?

Do you see that your sons never did anything to deserve this and yet get the same treatment you do?

I do see it, but these are her kids man. Her kids. She has pretty much told them all at one time or another that if they don't like what she has done, they can all just pretty much f*ck off. HER KIDS.

I'd suggest to your son that if she starts using language like that with him, that he tell her that he misses his mother, but he won't be spoken to like that by anyone. Good night.

Good suggestion. The funny thing is, when she first moved out, she told everyone that she doesn't use that kind of language anymore because she was "above" all of that.

Why are they saying goodnight to each other?

I don't know. She has managed to tdo hat just about every night since she has moved out. Personally, I believe it is to make herself feel better, but that is just my opinion.

So, you felt hurt. It's done now. Shake it off and move forward.

This is true, but the bigger issue for me was the fact that she can't seem to stay away from my family when I was threatened with bodily harm and law enforcement if I even talked to hers.

In other news:

I found out about an hour ago that my nephew (the one that graduated this week) blocked me and deleted me as a friend on FB. My God. What is she telling these people? That was my dead brother's only son and we had started to get close recently when my mom got sick. Now I am blocked. Ug!!!! I don't understand. Why? As I said, I thought we were done with all of the venom and anger. She must be telling some really good lies about me. Why is she starting all of this again? She has now managed to singlehandedly turn everyone against me with the exception of my dad, my sons and my little ratties. Although, I'm sure she'd turn the ratties against me if she could.

I was thinking this morning while trying to sleep that (believe it or not) I might actually feel a little sorry for her new husband because as S27 told me once: "I'm sure she has told him NUMEROUS lies." The truth always comes out I think and God help him and her when it does.

I also feel bad that HER choices and HER actions have ruined her relationship with all of our sons. She was such a wonderful mother a long time ago in a galaxy far, far away.

Thank you all for the prayers and good thoughts. I REALLY NEED THIS JOB. It would be a wonderful help and be a big boost to help turn my life around.

Tad