Ok so my books have just been dispatched and in the mean time I been reading Love must be tough.

it says that you should form a crisis and act as if the marital door is closing on your side as that sometimes pulls the partner back.. but my wife told me that she dont love me anymore she doesnt feel im her husband but a friend instead.
she says she'll stay for my sake but has to think about herself aswell.

I asked if she thinks she can be happy with me and she said yes however she believes she deserves better happiness and wants to be by herself.

I dont know what to do should I form a crisis in this situation and act as if the marital door is closing by moving out or shall I wait it out dor another 2 months when shes going to give me a decision?

the book says a blowout at early stages are better than a slow leak.

please shed some guidance guys.


M: 25 W:22
Said she wanted a D March 2014

Everythings worked out for me for the best.