I had an affair... and I want my Fiancee back

[Barrybran]

The time period between June and September 2012 is very telling as all three women make an appearance. Sandi is right in that you should honour your girlfriend's request. Quite simply, you are not ready for a relationship. You also appear to be is unhealthily focused on sex. As my wife told me just yesterday, sex is a bonus. I feel that is oversimplified, I feel it is an important part of a healthy relationship, but she brought up the notion of finding herself in an accident and never being able to have sex again. She asked would I leave. It's not something I had ever considered and helped reaffirm what the priorities in a relationship are.