Forgiven lazy husband - reconcilliation possible?

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So DR question on "more of the same"...(step #4)
Michelle asks what kind of arguments keep coming up and to be solutions based and do the opposite. I totally agree but our problem is we dont have any arguments cause we never talk about anything. She just never says anything and I have been pouty and get my way all the time...i have just steam rollered over my WAW...another reason she is walking out the door. Now that I have realized this I guess our solutions based action for me would be to initiate and talk about all the sex and money problems we have pushed under the carpet.
But she doesnt want to talk to me about anything at all.....so I guess I have to wait till the LRT/180/ going dark works...really hoping it does.... and then when she wants to talk about R I can bring it up. That is such a lame answer but its true right?