This is all from a mutual friend of WAW amd I, a spy for me so the speak.
1. W has said she knows she made mistakes in M 2. mutual friends feels there is no OM 3. W thinks we may not be "right" for each other 4. W doesn't want to screw me over, still cares about me
I am going to meet W on Wednesday to talk about finances. I live on base now and she lives in the apartment. W is supposed to leave for school sometime late July to early August.
During this meeting I plan to talk business, avoid any talks about M/R and also to keep it short as possible. I also plan to read and finish ILYB, INILWY by Andrew G. Marshall.
I realize part of my contribution to the state of the M is I avoided anger/fights because I grew up in a quiet house hold. I realize I should have engaged in arguments because part of the ILYB is a lack of understand and intimacy. And to elaborate further, I understand I need to complain rather than criticize. The difference is saying "I feel" statements as opposed to saying "You make me feel" statements.
I'm also going to the gym more than I used to as part of my 180.
Thoughts?
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
