Help! I'm in big trouble! Just found out my W stopped putting her check in our joint account this week. Now we're over drawn and broke! Worse part is she had me pay her car payment just before she did this emptying the account. She just didn't tell me! She's out so I texted her and she said I should have looked before paying anything. Why in God's name would she just do this and not tell me! How can she justify this in her mind in any way. You don't just do something like that without telling the person who pays the bills!
Now she wants to "figure it out" when she gets home. This is going to be fun! God grant me the strength to get through this, please. I don't get paid regularly. I just put money in but we have money going out and she has no idea what this is. She needed to sit down and go over this with me before she did this. We have already paid $150 in fees for the last few days! I have no idea when I'll get paid again. I smell her father in this. This isn't something she would do on her own.
Today is getting worse and worse. I also am beginning to think that there is more. I have reason to believe there may be OM in the picture (other than her father) and that will make things so much worse.
I'll come back later and post how this 'talk" goes. I'm sure it will be awful!
