It seems like you are doubtful of my sincerity or ability to commit.
No, that's not my point.
But I do get confused with you constantly referring to being in a R with this woman, when it clearly shows by your own posting history you were trying to win back your ex in June 2012. Last time I checked, that was exactly two years ago. Then you said it was a year later before you and this woman started a R. And when you said not to look up your history..,..,,of course, I did. Those type of things get my attention.
If you can't wait till Monday to talk to therapist, get emergency counseling. But I think, based on your history of not waiting for advice and jumping from thread to thread, you don't have the patience. You want a snap answer. Well, I gave you a snap answer! Honor her request and get your sh't together!
Frankly, you don't need to be with a woman you already find sexual dissatisfaction with. She doesn't deserve you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
