I am getting ready for a big anger-depression stage from XH when son comes back.. I live by: "treat others like you want to be treated." It doesn' t seem to fit with MLC. It seems impossible to treat them the right way. Something is always wrong or missing in their mind. They disregard WHO MATTERS MOST and can' t accept or understand why people walk out on them eventually?? NUTS !!! DON'T EVER FORGET: IT' S THEIR LIVES, NOT OURS.. Detachment...