We didn't agree terms of dating.

But every time we brought the marriage up, she would always say she did not have another man. She said she was not looking to rely in someone for her happiness. She said she was gonna be single.

All this time she was making me feel it was all me. That she can't trust I won't go back to focus more on work and act selfish, (my old ways). In fact, I have dramatically changed these past 6 months. And I was curious why she wasn't changing her mind. Now I know why.


Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years
Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8
Separated: 10/24/13
DB since: 12/14/13
Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet)
Still living together/Separate rooms