My XH is like your XW. My kids heard those exact same words but with different name calling.
You can predict the MLC outcome if they don' t figure their sh*t out. They can work on themselves like each and every one of us on here did. They have choices and options like everybody else. They don' t need our shovel, they have one of their own. Let her dig her bed and watch the show. You don' t even have to be the voice of reason, just be the role model. Your boys know none of you deserved this. They see a sick woman. They' ll have anger, compassion, pain but they' ll always have you. CONCENTRATE ON YOU !!! I get angry just like you when my kids are hurt but my kids are GOOD kids and are very smart.
