Cadet yes I read DR back when I first found Newcomers board but it has been a while. Thanks for the links to the MLC specifics. I am looking forward to homework. I feel better when I have a little more understanding. I have worked so kook hard on detaching and still am. Labug especially has been a great help with this.

Heather thanks for the support. I read your, thread this morning and will check back on your updates. My s gets LOTS of cuddle time. Maybe more than he wants. Haha.

H lives in the play room. The food isn't such a big deal as we still share finances. It is just an example of his inconsiderate attitude that irks me.

I spent a week last month answering calls from OW and trying to reason with her. Thank goodness I snapped out of it and stopped letting myself get dragged into their games and shared delusion.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15