Thanks for the thoughts, prayers, and advice. It means a lot. Once my family us living in house, I will move in with them. I am terrified. I have to get everything I need when I move out BC it is possible he won't let me back in to get things. This whole thing is such a mess. I think h figured out I went to lawyer. Not wanting that conversation to happen. I just want to be done.
I have reached my frustration level with h. He is running full steam to divorce. I am so done with this nonsense. I am hoping a new job pans out. I have never been unemployed.
New job panned out. It is less pay, but good benefits! They are willing to help pay for more education! Things are finally looking up.
H is pushing for divorce, and I am not fighting him. I am so done with him. He is mean and escalating. I have a lot of visitors by choice in the house as a buffer, so the nasty stays less. Maybe someday he will figure things out, but I can't do anything now if he wants a divorce.
Not sure if I told you but OW is in MLC too. Bet they have a hard time deciding whose turn it is to be selfish. ha ha!
Any good advice on divorce out there or good forums?
Scooby, We have the Divorce Forum on this web site and it's quite good. You might want to go over and check it out.
I'm glad the new job is going to work. Even though it's less pay, at least they are will to pay for some of your education.
I'm sorry about him pushing for the divorce, but many of them do that. One day, hopefully, he will wake up and realize what he's lost....but until then...continue moving forward and live your life to the fullest.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Congratulations on the job, Scooby. That's exciting for you:-)
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Scooby, We have the Divorce Forum on this web site and it's quite good. You might want to go over and check it out.
Gotta qualify Job's comment ^^ that there's a bunch of nutters over there! Pssst...I don't really count at all. Be forewarned and tread carefully. You might want to watch out for Froggy aka Wii.
Scooby, Yes, Wonka is correct that you need to tread carefully over on the other forum, however, there are a few that are struggling w/divorce over there and just like any forum, you need to "weed" through them to find what you are looking for.
I would suggest that you also pose your question about divorce forums on the other site that you post to. There are many who post here, as well as over there, and they may have discovered some site that are good forums for divorce. Also do a search on the net for divorce forums and take a look at them.
However, if and when you divorce, you are more than welcome to stay right here, in the MLC Forum, as we have a few that are divorced and post to help others walk the MLC/Walkaway paths that eventually either lead the couples back to reconciliation or divorce.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Wonka, I understood what you said and took it as "humor". People need to tread lightly until they find a forum that they would be comfortable in. They need to visit the forums, read some of the posting and then determine if that is the forum for them.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Meant in a good humored way! Guess had a humor fail moment there.