I'm Just About Ready For The Fork

[tadpole1025]

Thanks Exquisitetobe and Delboy. It really is amazing how weird and messed up these people or "aliens" become.

It is 7AM here in Phoenix and I haven't slept a wink. A lot is on my mind after last night's events. I'll explain below, but first a quick update on me. I still haven't heard from my friend in Chicago about the job opening but....I had an interview two days ago for another job in my field that I'm really hopeful about. My interviewer told me that I was the front runner and will probably get me in for another interview this coming week. It would be just what I need to get out of my slump. It pays fairly well and I would have three days off a week and maybe even a little money so I could have atleast a small social life. Please think good thoughts. It would help tremendously.

Other stuff:

A couple of days ago, S27 got me by myself and told me that he is finally starting to believe that something really is mentally wrong with XW. Says he finds it "tragic" that a mental or medical condition could ruin such a good marriage. Yes, the boys KNOW we had a good one. I think they all are starting to realize a few truths.

He also told me that as of the last time he was out at her house (since remarrying) she still has evey love letter that we wrote to each other and still even has a very nice picture of me (The Devil) that was taken for the yearbook of my senior year in high school. That was the year we started dating.

The main reason why I am writing though is about what happened last night between S23 and XW. I'm still not sure I even believe it. She is now being mean to the boys....really mean and nasty.

I could tell that something was wrong with S23 last night and I asked him about it. He told me that he had been arguing with XW. Apparently, she sent a text telling him goodnight. He told her goodnight and that SOMEHOW turned into a two-hour text argument. He shared a few highlights with me:

* She accused him and the others of not wanting to be in her life because they won't meet her new husband and never visit her.

* She told him that "you know where I live" and could come and visit her. 1.) He doesn't have a car. 2.) He DOESN'T know where she lives because he has NEVER been there. I don't even think he knows her address.

* When S23 asked why she went to my nephews graduation, she said: "Because I'm blood motherf*cker. Yeah, she called her own son that. And....she isn't his blood. It is my brother's kid.

* She said it was "bullsh!t" that they only talk on FB.

* She somehow, for some reason started talking about my brother and how he cheated on his wife. She was talking about my deceased brother. Yes, he did cheat on his wife years ago, but what does that have to do with ANYTHING? S23 reminded her that she cheated on me.

* She also said that he was "living in a sh!thole with your father." S23 told her that she put us in this "sh!thole."

* She accused him of lying to her about having to work to get out of visiting her.

The thing that really got me though was the way that he said she ended the conversation:

Are you ready?

"I'm done being the first one to say goodnight motherf*cker."

What the Hell?

Why is she now being mean to them? Why?

What is the point and how could she say that to her own kid?

Is she that miserable or just that damn mean?

I really do believe that she is THE QUEEN OF MEAN.

How can she get on FB and tell everyone how wonderful her life is and still be so mean and nasty to her kids? And how could she be so angry and what is she still so angry about?

Does this or will this EVER end?

I'm sure there was a lot more, but he only shared a few of the highlights. I just listened with my mouth hanging open. Couldn't believe it.

I would really like to hear what some of the vets have to say about this. I don't think I ever remember reading anything this awful and mean on this board about an MLCer's kids. Sure, our kids are nearly all grown, but they are still our kids.

Tad