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[Barrybran]

I'm curious about something and would like some opinions. My wife has been trying to process my affair and wants to move past it. Previously I had only dealt with her feelings and bottled up mine despite believing that my feelings were important to the story. She now wants to know the entire story so she can learn from it and move forward with her life.

I feel that 5LL explains a lot of the misunderstanding between us and I'm wondering if I should tell her about it. Not give her the book or explain it but just tell her about it and let her ask questions or Google it herself. If she wants to know more I can give her the book to read and I plan to do so if we eventually reconcile. I also have a friend who swears by 5LL who I can direct my wife to if she is skeptical about it.

Does anyone have any suggestions on this?