Hello everyone, I am new to the board. My wife and I are at the brink of divorce and she has checked out. Married for 7 years, no kids. I got the ilybinilwy. Not once but at least three times in our 7 years. We've been together for 21 years. At present we are living in the same house but different floors. I have done all the begging, pleading, crying,and more. I am so in love with her that I just cant see myself without her. My world is falling apart and I just dont know what to do. Just about a month ago, I found out that she was having an affair. It was with one of our mutual friend. I confronted her, with proof and they both admitted it was just an emotional affair. But I am not completely sure. I am so exhausted from all of this. It's been 3 and a half months now and I am trying to do the last resort, but somehow always falling back into my emotions. Can someone please help me.