Thanks Thornton! My IC commented on the discussion we had that started the R talk.

It was because I had set out some boundaries about his responsibilies with the kids and he wasn't used to he and I having seperate boundaries. And he reacted negatively, at first, to them.

She too encouraged to keep up the changes - even just for me but to watch and see his reaction....

Maybe there is something to this DB business wink


M:41
H:38
D:6
D:3
M:11 yrs
T:15 yrs
Bomb: Feb 8/14
Seperated: Feb 12/14

"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." Plato