Thanks Thornton! My IC commented on the discussion we had that started the R talk.
It was because I had set out some boundaries about his responsibilies with the kids and he wasn't used to he and I having seperate boundaries. And he reacted negatively, at first, to them.
She too encouraged to keep up the changes - even just for me but to watch and see his reaction....
Maybe there is something to this DB business
M:41 H:38 D:6 D:3 M:11 yrs T:15 yrs Bomb: Feb 8/14 Seperated: Feb 12/14
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." Plato