3 Months In and Feeling...More Aware

[Thornton]

Things are looking up!

He's noticing your changes and it's confusing him. He's testing you to see if the changes are real. Stay the course!

He will keep testing, be prepared for them!

[JennD]

Thanks Thornton! My IC commented on the discussion we had that started the R talk.

It was because I had set out some boundaries about his responsibilies with the kids and he wasn't used to he and I having seperate boundaries. And he reacted negatively, at first, to them.

She too encouraged to keep up the changes - even just for me but to watch and see his reaction....

Maybe there is something to this DB business

[Maybell]

Good to hear!

I agree with you about growing since BD. I like myself a lot more today than I did a year ago.

Keep on keeping on!

[hope456]

Jenn - My H has also reacted negatively to some boundaries at first. After that initial reaction though (if I've stayed calm but firm), he has called me and told me that he understood and respected where I was coming from.

You sound like you are doing really well