I didn't get my partner back (that was truly never meant to be in hindsight), but this is a new situation. Seems like some of the same advice might work this time, however.
Me: 39 - W: 35 Together: 2 years, no kids My Affair: 1.5 years Affair ended: 4/9/14 Affair revealed: 5/19/14 Last Contact: 8/2/14