I'm right there with you. We were raised with moral values, and it's an affront to us that people would do these things. I often thought of OM as a coward - too weak to leave his W or fix his problems.
But it is simply this: there are a lot of people out there who weren't raised with the same value system, or they later shed it, and are just out there having fun, living life. Hedonistic, self-centered.
Maybe they are doing it right and we aren't. Apparently they don't have any trouble sleeping at night. And we aren't sleeping that well at night lately, are we.
I think it all comes around in the end though. You do right by people, and it comes back to you. And you have to live with yourself. Can't remember where I read it, but it went something like 'Nobody lies on their deathbed saying "Gee, I wish I'd had an affair."'
