Is it normal to occasionally be furious towards the OM and the incredible stress he has caused on my life?

I know it's short sighted to not take responsibility myself, and to not blame my W, but sometimes I like to think their are other people that don't destroy families. There is zero respect on my part for the OM, and the qualities of someone who pursues someone married with three young kids.

Of course this conveniently allows me to blame others besides myself and my W. Just a little rumination on this Friday night.


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive