Thanks for the feedback everyone. I was so, so caught off guard. And I am continually so, so confused by H's behavior. He keeps reaching toward me but yet is not willing to invest in completely reconciling. I don't know how to take this. I keep thinking OW is still in the picture and he's bouncing between the two of us. Just when I think I'm prepared another curve ball comes my way that I did not at all anticipate.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14