Thanks for the feedback everyone. I was so, so caught off guard. And I am continually so, so confused by H's behavior. He keeps reaching toward me but yet is not willing to invest in completely reconciling. I don't know how to take this. I keep thinking OW is still in the picture and he's bouncing between the two of us. Just when I think I'm prepared another curve ball comes my way that I did not at all anticipate.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14