I've wondered how you were doing and am happy to hear an update. I was going to say it was good to see you, but this isn't a fun club. However, there are lots of great peeps in this club. H lives in the basement, correct?
I think when your h starts to monster at you, you simply say in a calm voice, " I will not be spoken to this way" or " I'm going to leave until you calm down " and walk out. Something to that effect. On a personal note, I've found mentioning a boundary to a person in MLC is like talking to a jar of peanut butter. Your actions will speak louder than words.
In regards to s, others may disagree but I say continue on with therapy regardless of what your h says. Your h will blame you for the price of gas , the Broncos getting blown out in the Super Bowl, and why there is only one Saturday in a week. Does your h watch s? I know you said your d drinks a great deal so I'm just curious about his condition around s.
Hang in there:-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
