I too, was my 2nd husbands affair partner. He told me he was divorced. I had no reason to NOT believe him.

The biggest lesson I learned from that whole marriage was that when people in my life behave badly, it is a reflection on them.

You didn't make your husband a liar anymore than I did


Work on things you need to work on to make yourself a better person

let him go

He won't be a better person...he has to account for that in his own life

he won't come to his senses and nothing you can do will make him

coal needs pressure to make itself into a diamond...
you will see how you shine because of this

anger is emotion wasted on him