"I did become withdrawn as I saw my wife was already tired from work and always stressed, so I didn't confide in her as much as I should have for a few months. I just didn't want to add pressure on her."

Be honest. Is this the truth or did you withdraw because you just didn't feel like talking?

"A lot of our problems are really down to a temporary communications issues. "

"Communication" is extremely broad. What are some specifics.

"None of her previous issues with myself or our marriage have existed for a long time now."

Like what? You still haven't detailed anything. We can't help until you start detailing what these things are.

"I have a new career, doubled my income, I have honestly never looked as good as I do now and I am so much more open and cheerful than the man she left."

How long ago was all these changes put in?

It would also help if you told us how long you've been married, how long you dated, if you have kids, etc. Your stats will also help.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER