Ggrass above recommended you insist on sticking to the plan. I agree. Allowing him to ratchet up frustration on your end won't help with DB, and he clearly doesn't value your flexibility enough for giving in that he will appreciate you for it.

It is so hard when these issues impact our kids. Isn't that what this mostly comes down to for you? Not that you want less time with your D, but that HE should want MORE? (Please pardon my guessing here).

I'm sorry you're in this place and he is so clueless.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.