Thanks Zee and Starsky,

Although I question it sometimes when I feel the urge arising, I know it is far too fruitless to pursue, although so tempting at different points. A conversation about the OM with my W that involves reason is not possible. More to the point, what does it do to change the situation....nada.

Starsky, I agree my first comment was unnecessary. Thanks for the suggestions. I'll make sure to use a stronger word next time. I regretted the first comment right away. Just need to learn to engage the mind before speaking in all situations smile

Just called to speak with my youngest at home. He was outside gardening. His mom was supposed to pick him up. I guess after the discussion on ramifications, she was paralyzed with anxiety and fear, and hasn't picked him up yet. This is according to her when I sent a text asking where she was. The mess continues.

Thanks for your support and comments. As always, can't imagine where I would be without the boards, although in the throes of a heated D battle would be most likely. Keep the good battle going

Cheers
Dev


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive